KKB Muntinlupa weblog

Love

Forgive

Never Give up

iBlog
i Believe, Love and Obey God

*Jabes is Galvanized into ACTION :)

Live

Love

Forgive

Never Give up

iBlog
i Believe, Love and Obey God

*Jabes is Galvanized into ACTION :)

Live

Love

Forgive

Never Give up

iBlog
i Believe, Love and Obey God

*Jabes is Galvanized into ACTION :)

“ I give you a new commandment: That you should love one another. Just as I have loved you, so you too should love one another.” –John 13:34

It became one of my favorite bible verse. I want to love just like how Jesus loves us.

September 15, 2011. My Birthday.

It’s such a long story that happened only in one day. When I woke up in the morning, I’m sure that the enemy wants me to grieve, but God gave me a gift of victory, so I over comer.

After the nights of prayer, my mom and Sis. Venia prepared a little birthday feast for the attendees. (If I just knew that they will do such thing, I wished I had invited the KKB’s to come…) and after we eat, Grace handed me something and said that her brother made it last night, and he slept very late because of that. I was so touched with the gift when I saw it and expresses my appreciation. And then I told her that I wish that it is he who personally handed it, but unfortunately he was not able to come.

The gift is: A Scrapbook made by The Little Innocent…=D

Upon seeing it, I am very much surprised. I don’t know how I will explain that happiness in my heart. It’s like I want to burst out tears…but I’m too shy..haha…I really appreciate this gift. This is the first scrapbook I ever received in my entire life and I’m so glad that is from my beloved one. (I love you so much THE LITTLE INNOCENT!!!) 

Well, let me give you a sneak peek on the contents of the book.

This is the first page of the scrapbook. He greeted me together with my age. (Do I have to be reminded of my age???) haha.. The photo was taken one Friday afternoon when my beloved and I hanged out in Festival Mall with Jabes.

“Perfect Couple”

Wow…haha…I’m speechless…for me this is one of the sweetest photo we ever have so far..well it was taken using his phone at sm tunasan.=))

Haha… there is nothing wrong with preparing for the future right? =P haha…the photo was taken in Southville using my digicam…and the kid in our family picture is Bob Charles.

In this page, the big butterfly on the side caught my attention. It’s so cute..haha..but anyway the photo here was taken during our feasting in Rivera’s house. (Honestly during this time I already like him..=D).

This is the last page of the scrapbook. It’s another cute page. The photo in here is our very first photo when we were in our “Getting to know each other” stage. It was taken in Casauay’s house.

Here he put the the Bible verse John 13:34, which is a reminder that we should love each other like How Jesus loves us.. so sweet..=D

Very surprising gift from him. I didn’t expect to receive anything from him today and I didn’t expect that he would come up with this kind of gift. I rarely meet a man who’s creative and artistic to make a scrapbook for his girl. I’m glad that my man is one of them (Thank You Lord!!!). It is so cute. I really appreciate it but I appreciate the man behind it more. =D!!

Before I go on, let me clear things up: This is just my opinion that is base from my experiences and I’m just expressing it ok?

“Sorry is not enough” -> one of the funniest expression I heard from my friend (if I’m not mistaken it was Ronald Vega) one afternoon while I was watching them playing volleyball. He was accidentally hit by the ball and the culprit apologizes quickly saying “Sorry”, then he responded the said expression in funny way because we’re all having fun there.

Yes. We’re just having fun even though the culprit was sincere to his apology, it doesn’t matter maybe because we’re in the mood of laughing out loud.

“Does it really matter?”, I ask myself as I recall that scenario. Well, try to read between the line..=)

We often hear this word “sorry’, followed by “I didn’t mean that “expression from our offender or sometimes from our self whenever we offended someone unintentionally. You didn’t mean that that is why you are saying “sorry”. That’s the way it is. You should apologize whenever you did something wrong to someone. You must say the word wholeheartedly or else your apology will be rejected. This is the magic word to reconcile with someone if you are the offender. But if you are the offended one, this is a word of relief or comfort (if I’m not mistaken).

All of us have been offended right? Or hit by something that hurt us right? And sometimes, it’s hard to forgive and it’s harder to forget. Admit it; sorry is not always enough and sometimes it doesn’t make any sense. But of course, it depends on the situation. I mean it depends on how you were offended. 

In my given scenario, no matter how sincere the culprit was to his apology, it will not heal the pain in my friend’s body. Off course we all knew that in sports, pain is expected. But the good thing is we knew that the culprit didn’t hit my friend intentionally. It was just an accident. So, his apology is accepted. We may consider this as small thing. So I guess the word “sorry” works on small things.

All of us had experienced waiting right? I’m sure all of us have been in a scenario wherein you are about to meet a friend, both of you set the meeting place and off course the time. You arrive on the meeting place in time but you’re friend did not. You’ve waited long because your friend is almost 2 hrs late. And sometimes, there are instances that your friend is not responding to your text messages. The worst of that, you ended up waiting in vain. In this scenario, how do sorry work? Will it bring back those wasted time you spent? No. I experienced this so many times and whenever I recall it, I only realize that “Sorry” doesn’t make any sense. But for the sake of harmony and peace, I only let it pass. But not all persons are like me I’m sure and be aware of that. But if you are in the place of the one who made someone wait in vain, how will you make things up? Ok…let’s accept the fact that there is reason but whatever reason you have, can you bring back those wasted time your friend spent? And besides, whatever reason you have, you should inform your friend. The fact that someone is waiting for you, you should do every possible way to make an update.

I’m not saying that apology is useless. I’m not saying that we do not need to apologize because it’s no use. What I’m trying to say here is that the word “Sorry” is just a word, and we just use it to show that we didn’t mean to do such thing and that we didn’t intentionally hurt someone. But apology doesn’t end in just saying “Sorry”. Honestly, I strongly doubted the saying “Just say sorry and everything will be fine” especially when emotion is included. When you apologize, prove your sincerity. Sometimes, peace offering will work but it is much better that if we apologize, make sure or make it possible that we will not repeat our mistake. Do everything you can to please the offended and try to win the trust again. And of course, face the consequences. As I have mention, sometimes it’s hard to forgive, so wait patiently until you were forgiven. What matters is you did your part.

In conclusion, you can be forgiven, but your deeds might be unforgettable. “Sorry” is just a word and it should be accompanied by “Sincerity” when you apologize. But of course, “Prevention is still better than cure” if you know what I mean…=D

Ang ipis bow!

Dahil wala akong maisip na topic, eto ang para sa inyo. (nakakahiya tuloy kila ate cheng at heyshell, hahaha!)

Bakit nga ba maraming takot na takot sa ipis?  Maraming takot sa isang maliit na nilalang na color brown.. In fact, housemate sya ng karamihan o baka nating lahat, di lang natin sya kinakaibigan. (kawawang ipis)    

Naalala ko tuloy ‘yung kapatid ko. Sobrang takot sa ipis, nawawala ang pagkalalake sa twing nakakakita ng ipis. minsan nga naisip ko napapanaginipan nya yung ipis habang nasa kalagitnaan sya ng kanyang mahimbing na pagkakatulog e.

Ewan ba,  ang ipis ay kayang mabuhay ng hanggang 9 na araw na wala ang kanyang ulo at ito yung tinatawag nilang point of starvation . Kumbaga, namatay ng gutom. Bakit ganun? Kase daw wala sa ulo ang utak ng ipis. Alam mo kung asan? Andun.. mamaya na, tapusin mo muna tong kasulatang ito ha?.

Katsaridaphobia naman ang tawag sa takot sa ipis o may phobia dito. (tama ba to mga psychologist?)
Hirap naman kabisaduhin nian no? pano pagtinanong ka?

Oh di ba, pinahirapan mo pa sarili mo, pwede naman palang simplehan. Hahaha! Di naman ako against sa terms. Pero I bet kakaunti lang ang nakakaalam neto.

hai ipis. Bakit ka nga ba nasa kusina, kwarto, sala, banyo, plato, toothbrush, mangkok, baso, inidoro at minsan ay nasa mata ko?

Ang isa pang katotohanan kung bakit ang hirap i-eliminate ng ipis ay ito

Dahil humigit kumulang na 300 milyong taon na silang nag-eexist dito sa mundong ibabaw. Madami na palang henerasyon ang kanilang dinaanan. Gagawin nga naman nila ang lahat para mabuhay (diba obvious?).

Kahit ano kinakain nila, kahit ung sa aso mo, pwede nilang agawin. Kaya’t wag kanang magtaka kung bakit kahit san andun ang your friendly neighbor, cockroach. Or should I say unfriendly housemate? (nice English, haha! Iniiwasan ko ngang mag-english e, saket sa ilong.XD)

Kaya din nilang mabuhay ng 1 buwan na walang pagkaen, lupet no?

Maraming ipis ang lumilipad, eto yung tinatawag nilang feeling butterfly kung makalipad, pero hindi lahat ng ipis ay nalipad bali hindi sila nabigyan ng gift of flying. Ang utak naman ng ipis ay pagala-gala daw sa kanyang katawan at ang kanyang puso, pwedeng tumigil ng hindi sila namamatay! At kaya din nilang iHold ang kanilang hininga for 40mins.

Wag natin silang balewalain, Cockroach exist because they can exist. Hahaha!

They exist for a reason, kasama kaya sila sa food web ng animals. At inuulam pa nga ng ilan (spell YUCK!) eto pa, sila ay decomposer o ang nagbbreak down/apart ng patay at ito’y kinakain.

Ang galing pala ng ipis!

pero ang isa sa pinakanakakatawang picture na nakita ko about ipis:

Mejo edited sya ng konti dahil may di magandang word.. 

To end this, pinag isipan kong mabuti kung anong magandang mensahe ang pwedeng makuha natin dito.. eto na:

Learn from the cockroaches, even though we HATE them so MUCH, we can’t stop them from living their life. God created them, we may never know why they exist, but God designed them for a purpose.  ‘yung ipis nga may purpose, IKAW pa kaya?

Live

Love

Forgive

Never Give up

iBlog
i Believe, Love and Obey God

*Jabes is Galvanized into ACTION :)